My Favorite Things 2020

When the Year Bites…

Pink kitty noses and all finished kitchens. Bright copper projects and DIY missions. Grandma’s framed afghan and engagement rings… These are a few of my favorite things.

My favorite things 2020 montage After a two year hiatus, I’m back with my “annual” (*sigh*) Favorite Things post. I feel pretty terrible that I neglected to write this post for the last two years. In 2013, when this blog was born, I started a tradition and I broke it in 2018, like a lazy jerk. I let you guys down. I let myself down. And it’s not like I can go back and fix it. Those years are gone. I don’t even remember what my favorite things were back then. I guess it would be easy to just blame Schmoopy

So I will.

Hey, that was easy.

Let’s get on with the list, shall we? Here are the things I’ve been enjoying all (crappy) year. I’m going to start with a real game changer.

Favorite thing #1

The Instant Pot

Instant Pot Smart

Years ago, I tried to make a meal in my crock pot. You’re not supposed to be able to screw up crock pot recipes, but, over-achiever that I am, I totally did. Spectacularly. I wrote a post about it that people seemed to enjoy. I vowed never to try the pot again (just say no, kids), but this thing is so much more than a crock pot. In fact, its best function is as a pressure cooker.

Not to be confused with the “Instapot” (which, in fact, does not exist), the Instant Pot has actually made me feel like I know how to cook. I know it’s just an illusion. Throwing ingredients into a pot and pressing a button isn’t really cooking, but the food tastes so freaking good, people think there must be skill involved. And it’s not polite to correct people. So, I don’t.

Favorite thing #2

Pressure Luck Cooking

Step By Step Instant Pot Cookbook

If you have an Instant Pot (or you plan to get one so you can pretend to know how to cook, like I do), I highly recommend Jeffrey’s recipes from and his awesome cookbook, The Step-by-Step Instant Pot Cookbook. I had my Instant Pot in a closet for a whole entire year before I was brave enough to use it. Jeffrey has this video where he gives you a basic intro to using your pot and he made it not scary, so I started making some of his recipes.

I’ve made bourbon chicken over rice, and meatloaf and the best freaking mashed potatoes I’ve ever had in my life (sorry mommy), but my most favorite recipe to make is this creamy lemon orzo soup. You won’t believe there’s no dairy in it. It’s made with eggs, and I add chicken to mine, so it’s got a lot of protein. I make it so frequently that my cookbook opens to that page automatically. It’s so freaking good!

Favorite thing #3

belVita Golden Oat Cookies

belvita cookies golden oat

Speaking of food (yes, cookies are food), these are my favorite cookies. Actually, they call them “breakfast biscuits”, so that totally counts as food. (Told you.) They have a ton of flavors, but Golden Oat is my absolute favorite. I have them pretty much every day with a cup of tea. A package of four cookies is only 230 calories, so it satisfies my sweet tooth without killing my diet.

Favorite thing #4

Tree of Life Anti-Aging Serums

Tree of Life serums

Perhaps you read my post a few weeks ago where I exposed myself as a personal product hoarder. Our bathroom has a drug store’s worth of grooming products, but I only regularly use a handful of them. (The rest are things that I’ve tried, stopped using for whatever reason, but that I can’t throw away because that would be wasteful and that’s bad for the planet. Duh.)

One thing that I consistently finish and buy again is this three pack of anti-aging serums from Tree of Life. If you’ve ever purchased anti-aging crap, then you know it’s pricey and, a lot of the time, it doesn’t do a damned thing. These serums are inexpensive and I really feel like they do make my skin look and feel better. I can actually get away with wearing minimal makeup without feeling like a troll, and people rarely guess what an old lady I am, so that’s a win in my book.

Favorite thing #5

This Clock

cube clock

We don’t subscribe to cable anymore. We really don’t miss it. Between Netflix, Hulu, Amazon Prime, and Philo, we’ve got a ton of options when it comes to rotting our brains. The one thing I did miss about having cable, though, was the cable box. Specifically, the clock on the cable box. I just like being able to see what time it is without pulling out my phone to look. This little clock looks like a cube made of wood. I really love the minimal design (no visible buttons!) and the numbers are just big enough to see from the couch.

The time is 8:53. See? Didn’t even need to get up to read that.

Favorite thing #6

The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel

Marvelous mrs maisel

Speaking of TV, my favorite show this year was The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel. It’s by the same writer that gave us Gilmore Girls, which I also loved (as you may have noticed on my TV screen above…) I can’t say enough good things about Maisel. It’s one of those shows that just brings me joy. It’s funny, smart, and beautifully shot with it’s period clothing and sets. I adore this show. You can find it on Amazon Prime.

Favorite thing #7

Where the Crawdads Sing

Where the crawdads sing

If you prefer to curl up with an excellent book, I highly recommend Where the Crawdads Sing, by Delia Owens. To be honest, I didn’t expect to like this book. I’m not usually drawn to fiction that’s set in the past, but a trusted friend suggested I give it a try and it did not disappoint. It was so well written, I couldn’t put it down.

Guys, don’t wait to read this. They’re making a movie based on the book and, if you’re like me, you want to read the book before you see the movie. The book is almost always better.

Favorite thing #8

The Ring Floodlight Camera


The ring floodlight camera mounted on garage

I mentioned this camera a few weeks ago here, but it’s worth mentioning again. The Ring Floodlight Camera has not only been a great source of entertainment, but has also provided additional security for My Crappy House. You never know who (or what) is lurking around outside. I feel better having this gadget keeping an eye on things, hung high enough where it’d be hard for the bad guys to tamper with, and it’s nice to have the bright light pop on when I’m taking out the trash at midnight because I forgot to do it earlier.

Favorite thing #9

This Night Light

Mason jar night light

I get so many compliments on this cute little mason jar night light in my bathroom. It’s light sensitive. During the day, it’s got a dim little decorative flame, but when the sun goes down, it’s bright enough to enable you to use the bathroom in the middle of the night without turning on the main light, thus facilitating that “half asleep” state we all try to maintain when it’s necessary to conduct business at 3 a.m.

Favorite thing #10

Not Your Mother’s Dry Shampoo

Not Your Mothers Clean Freak Tapioca Dry Shampoo Warm Sugar

I’ve got a lot of hair and washing it is a whole production, so I only do it once a week. I know that might sound crazy to some of you, but it’s really not good for your hair to wash it every day, as it strips your natural oils. I use Not Your Mother’s Clean Freak Dry Shampoo around day five, when it starts to get a little bit greasy at the roots, or even earlier in the week if I just want some extra body. I’ve used many other brands of dry shampoo and they all usually have an unpleasant smell, but literally, every single time I use this product, Schmoopy tells me I smell so good and then I tell him it’s because my hair is dirty. It smells like vanilla, which is my most favorite scent. I promise you will love this stuff.

Favorite thing #11

Aquis Hair Towel

As I mentioned above, I have a lot of hair.

My hair from the back no haircut in over a year

(Yikes! Just look at those roots. I don’t often see the back of my head…)

Thanks to this stupid pandemic, I haven’t had a haircut in well over a year. Clearly, I need one, but, even so, my hair is in pretty good shape. I attribute that to washing once a week (see above) and to the Aquis Hair Towel. The one I use is specifically for long hair, but they also have shorter versions for both fine and thick hair, as well as a turban type. I prefer the regular towel shape and I make my own turban.

Aquis hair towel on head

I shower at night and I never go to bed with wet hair. After washing, I wrap my hair in this towel for about 15 – 20 minutes, then I only need to blow dry it for less than five minutes. The Aquis towel really cuts down on frizz, which is probably especially great for curly hair. It’s also supposed to minimize breakage, and I even found an article where a girl claims it made her color last longer. I’ll never wrap my hair in a terry towel again.

Favorite thing #12

Egor and Zero

Two cats sleeping egor and zero

Egor has been on every Favorite Thing list since I started, but now that he’s got a little brother, I have two cat sons to love. They got off to a rocky start, but now, they totally love tolerate each other. (They pretend not to be friends, but then I find them both sleeping on the bed at the same time, so close to one another… I think they may be faking.)

Egor and zero two cats on the bed close to each other

And I’m pretty sure they’re telling cat secrets…

Two cats telling secrets egor and zero

Or maybe plotting… Whatever the case may be, I’m just happy they’re getting along. I started an Instagram account for them this year. They’re well on their way to getting more followers than I have, which makes sense. They post way more than I do. They have very busy cat lives.

So, that about wraps it up. Have you got any favorite things you want to share with the rest of the class? Let us know in the comments below. See you next week!

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  • Gretchen

    Just want to say I’m so happy to hear somebody else say they can’t do crockpots. Everything I make is paste or tastes like stew. And I don’t like stew. Love your blog, thanks for writing!

  • SusieQ

    Love you list! Just bought the towel turban for my niece who has long hair for an extra little Christmas gift! Glad you are back to blogging – you always manage to get me to smile/chuckle! And……’re a cat mom, too. Which is really what matters! #CatsOverKids ha ha ha

    • My Crappy House

      Oh, she will love it! No more bulky, heavy bath towels on her head
      The only good thing to come out of COVID has been focusing on the blog. I’m really enjoying writing it. It makes me happy people like to read it! And TOTALLY #CatsOverKids

  • Barbara H.

    Thanks! I just tossed my very old microfiber hair towel because of the smell. Love Egor and Zero – very typical cat behavior when there are two in my personal experience. It can take a long time, maybe never, for them to get to the “like” stage but who knows what goes on when I am gone. Don’t fret over missing years of your list – those years are gone and the memory bank needs to focus on important things. So glad you are posting regularly. Thanks for that – I know it takes a lot of time and energy.

    • My Crappy House

      I haven’t noticed any smell with this particular towel, and I’ve actually had it since January of 2019. I throw it in with my other towels on hot and dry it on high. So far, so good!

      I was SO nervous when Zero moved in. They had a tough time in the beginning, but it could have been so much worse. After watching too many episodes of “My Cat From Hell”, I expected a CATastrophic situation… They’ve been pretty good. I wish they’d snuggle with each other, but that hasn’t happened yet (to my knowledge.) They do wrestle though, which makes me happy. They like each other enough to play. If they never get closer, this will be enough.

      And thank you for your kind words about the blog. It is a lot of work, but I really do enjoy writing it. It makes me happy that you like reading it too.

  • Melissa

    I adore my instapot and use it often. Forget to thaw something? No worries cause the instapot will save dinner.

    Geez, now you gave me 3 more items to order as gifts…..well, one will be a gift. Thanks for the recommends.

    Yes, Crawdads was an awesome book

    • My Crappy House

      Ah, you read it too! OMG, I LOVED that book! Can’t wait for the movie.

      I’m undeservedly impressed with myself every time I make something in my Instant Pot. Meat comes out so perfect! I’ve made pork chops that just fall off the bone and a brisket that my honey says is his most favorite thing ever. I am AMAZING! hahahaha

      I’m happy I could help with your gift list. Happy holidays!

  • em

    Damn, between your creampuffs, your beautiful skin, and that freaking gorgeous head of hair, I’ll just use my favorite “When Harry Met Sally” quote and say “I’ll have what she’s having.” I’ll start with the serums and get to the rest later.

    Also… if you haven’t hit up “Ted Lasso,” on the tube, don’t be fooled by the soccer setting. It’s AWESOME!!!


    • My Crappy House

      You are the second person in two days to recommend Ted Lasso. I trust both sources, so I’m going to add it to my watch list right meow.

      Thank you for the compliments! Let me know if you’d like that cream puff recipe… It’s my mother’s, but I will share. They were a hit this Thanksgiving. I think I am guaranteed an invitation next year based on those puffs

    • My Crappy House

      I definitely trust my readers because you guys CLEARLY have great taste, being here and all I’m totally going to watch it!

    • My Crappy House

      Not weird at all! The tag says 518 Superlow, though I wouldn’t describe them as “super” low. Just a regular low rise.

  • Meesa

    I absolutely love that you have the Gilmore girls episode when Emily freaks out and tries to buy that globe for Richard and then has a meltdown in the department store on your television.

    • My Crappy House

      Haha that was the ‘EVERYTHING is for sale’ moment. I used that scene for my blog post about the library steps. Weren’t you with us in PA when I got those?

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